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Monday, March 14, 2011

No discrimination to be appreciate!

Everyone was born with a man in their family, especially our own dad/father/ayah/ abah..etc.Well what i'm gonna discuss today is about how the mentality of  some man will work in the future or the meantime, as what i been observe some of the men i knew.

A man always born to be a leader in the family, as they realize that they have the veto power they think they can act as what the desire to fulfill their pleasure, and for my answer that is TOTALLY WRONG!

Some men are ego as they are tonnes of metal in their heart . They wanted all people under them to follow all their direction and in this modern society all that must be gone as the women has their own stand that to be consider all women are more educated than the men. As i suggested, it suppose to be in the same standard , that the men all need to put their ego down a little as to be in the same as women because there are women that have the higher level  than the men now days

The very important thing is the equality to be up hold toward to have the successfully life.

As all human are born with different physical on the outside but inside all human body there is blood which the same colour that we share and no matter which your level are now, remember anytime all things on this earth will be gone just like that if the greedy of power take control of the body.

There are still, i scope to man out there which have the very stereotype mentality and think that woman should follow all the want, even in the work place as example if your boss is a man which as you to do this and that within the same time , frankly speaking yes i 've been in the same position which i put all my confidence level to the top and thinking that he is small as an ant and speak out loud to him that i could not do this and that within the same time because i only have two hands which he also have the same and both of us is not disable or something and i ask him , if  he in my position , will he do the same thing or do the bunch of works within the time given, i'm sure the answer is NO right.

Some of man will use as in Islam there is term which a wife should follow all her husband wishes as to respect the husband as leader of the family who give all the 'nafkah' , but the term had been used wrongly because is suppose to be in Islam that the husband wishes must be follow and treat the wife good and not to make their wife to be slave of their entire marriage and if the family do have daughter, the father need to protect their daughter as their princess and also need to fulfill their princesses wishes and the daughter need to protect the father as they grown up later (in the easy term to be equal is to give and take not to push each other to do something and it will destroy the entire family because of the greedy and selfishness of someone). I am not the one who very into Islamic perspective but yet i try hard to learn all by reading and asking the right person Ustaz/Ustazah so i could not give the details which i'm not really sure about it but yet to be consider the use of term that husband as the leader should be elaborate so there no misuse of the term. 

The establishment of  Women Society to protect women through out the world makes the better place for women out there who being abuse by all the mean men out there.

I think that's all for now, and finally i really hope people out there whoever read this will take consideration when they want other to follow their steps, no discrimination as all human living and breathing with feeling and lives and loved one and each one of us deserved to have the good time without any abuses. 
Don't be so quick to deal out death and judgement, and remember that each and every human life is precious.The death of one affects the lives pf so many, appreciate what they have been sacrifice to you.
TQ,
-Love Coke Addicted- 


Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Whether to be or not..

First of all, i would like to thanked whoever read this blog, i really appreciate it and i would like to say sorry of some sort of grammar mistake i had made, i try to learn and write in English.

What would you really feel , if every single morning u woke up with a bang on the door and ask you to go for a work that u , urself doesn't know what the job it is and in the simple way the job does not really suits u and your qualification.
That's really suxx! life never be fair. Yes i do admit it.

Some of my friend do have best qualification which same as me, but they work as 'kuli' mahu tak mahu, kamu kena kerja juga sebab mahu makan and some of them doesn't have any qualification which they always put themselves down which is not really a good way to live a life.

This is because life never been fair to anyone, i suggested to anyone out there whoever felt that they are not educated enough, i think all of u should use your other side of knowledge as example skill , creativity to do some work, at least u get a job from the talent that u have right?
choose the job that u really enjoy to do.

As all people always said, do the work that u really enjoy not the work that give u a bunch of burden on your head just because of the higher salary u had been paid.

For me that's really doesn't help u to live a  healthier life ever..so much burden + with stress + high blood pressure + etc (family.etc) = DIE

All people have their own desire, brain that given by god to think and the only way to have it.. is to choose whether to be or not is on our own hand.
for example like what i had been through , yes i do really proud of myself to achieve a successful life in education but yet the real story is, i had already make the biggest mistake because as the field i choose for my life, is my parents desire and i follow what they want me to be and at last i have no passion at all in my field even though i did well in my studies.
now i struggle with my own life to find a job that really suits me, plus i'm working with my father which i don't have passion at all in that field and it's really suxx! working in the office not really what i imagine all this time..and i hope i choose a better job for the next day..

Plus , i do thanked to god that my father has his own company which some out there with their own expectation would says , "doesn't u glad that your father has his own company and u as a child will running up the bussiness? and no everyone had that opportunity right?"
i would answered that with this "because, of my father company there a lots of high expectation given by everybody else surround u and u will be super stressed up and some of your colleges is among your family member and u know their true colours which it is not easy as it seem because when u really work with employer (stranger)  u have respect, u have your own reputation but with family member all that will be gone because they are our family member which , i can't deny it , i do cursing my own office partner which is to be my sister/brother because of silly mistake and on that moment, i think if i'm working with someone else i won't curse like that because we still have our own stand to defend ourselves but not with that kind of words and still remain calm and i put respect first in the job. 
i guess the answer to the question is too long to be explain..

As advice to all out there.~ doesn't matter u have an education or not as long u have passion with the job , u can do well and be a successful man on the earth as long u happy with your life.
the decision is on our own hand and the verdict will come with the bright light as we choose the right path :)
tq,
-LoveCokeAddicted-

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

About what I'm gonna write

I created this blog because i wanted to tell a story about me, as i assume myself as Coke Addicted because usually people who they thinks they deserve to be unknown a.k.a anonymous i prefer to be known as Coke Addicted.

I will tell the whole world about what I'm going out through my life as i expected people does not know who i am actually, I will tell all the truth nothing but the truth

Somehow, i will wrote the story of my life starting from the beginning i knew the world till now..
it's a lots to share and sometimes i gonna write in Malay language which i will using a formal Malay language, so if people out there whoever does not know what I'm writing off , I suggest you can used the very common Google translator which a very quite popular translator over the world and might help you to understand what I' writing off  in my blog.

At the beginning, I introduce myself as a common blogger who loves to write a story about themselves, instead of making the rumors and gossip around..i live in my own capsule world.

I choose Coke Addicted as my nickname (i assume) because out there, a lots of people loves coke..no matter what kind of types of coke as there are few i noticed in my country (Classic Coke,Cherry Coke,Diet Coke,Lemon Coke, Vanilla Coke) but i prefer to be the original, the classic coke Coca Cola :)

Just a little information i grab from Wikipedia the very useful information on the internet that we can rely on, here it goes :-
"When launched Coca-Cola's two key ingredients were cocaine(benzoylmethyl ecgonine) and caffeine. The cocaine was derived from the coca leaf and the caffeine from kola nut, leading to the name Coca-Cola (the "K" in Kola was replaced with a "C" for marketing purposes)"
that means I'm the cocaine caffeine right? Ohh no that's just so wrong..well i need a caffeine to makes me stay up all the time, yes i do admit that coke helps me a lot, to staying up while i'm working on something such as study ;) or somehow it's makes me too much hyper even i can't stop laughing..there was a time when i drank too much of Coke and the world like spinning around..i start to mumble jumble and it's not intoxication but i did being a hyper couple of times even my friends can't stop me being who is not me hahaha..i guess it's just me. not try for being so offensive but I 'm not a drunker or what cause i still believe in my religion which drink an alcohol is forbidden, but i drink a lots of coke just to me make hyper which makes me dance on the floor right..? :)

Another thing about this blog, i will write anything that crosses my mind so the date of the post is not really important because some of the story might be on the past or present or in future. as the time passes everything can be change right? or we ourselves changing it..so as i said " my story will never end until i ended up it, as one things is for sure and anything is possible can be done"
-Love Coke Addicted-